Loving someone who is imperfect perfectly

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Jul 31, PM. Paul 0 books view quotes. Jul 26, AM. Maite 6 books view quotes. Jul 10, PM. Ronda books view quotes. Jul 08, AM. Ethan 0 books view quotes. We may feel that they would be perfect if they could just say this instead of that, or stop a habit all together. If you find yourself playing this game, it may be because you are not truly loving that person. Most of the time, we create expectations for those we love. We expect that they will be there for us.

While these are perfectly reasonable expectations, what happens when they let us down? When they disagree with us or aren't there when we need them? What happens when we pile on other expectations?

When we start getting picky about how we want them to act? By making expectations we are creating a checklist someone must follow to be loved by us. But there's a glaring issue with this plan. No one is perfect and people are unpredictable. You have been created by God to serve a purpose in life. You are doing your best to serve that purpose and this is sufficient to feel worthy of love and respect.

So, ladies, the next time you start feeling like someone good for nothing, unable to take the stress of life and shrinking into depression, hug yourself, wipe your tears, and treat yourself like someone you love a lot.

Take a bite of your favourite chocolate, close your eyes and say thanks to God for whatever good things you have in your life and manifest positive things coming your way. I'm Deeksha- mommy of a little girl, a school teacher by profession and a blogger by passion. I love reading and writing real life motivational stories of women who never ever gave up in their lives!

Feel special on my blog as I truly believe 'Every Woman is Wonderful'! Nishtha Kawrani. Akshay G Paraskar. Rashi Juneja. Abinaya Suresh. Maharshi Ghosh. Yet, to start this adventure, we must open our hearts and minds to another person. Naturally, some connections are stronger and some choices more ideal than others, but any love can grow when we are willing to explore our own limitations and grow our own capacity for closeness.

Great article, beautifully written. What i wonder is… how can we gain insight into our past? How can we learn what situations have shaped us? How can we know how are we projecting our past onto our partner? M posses excellent questions.

Essentially, how can we be more aware of who we are? Mindfullness can be a method. Your email address will not be published. About the Author. Lisa Firestone, Ph. An accomplished and much requested lecturer, Dr.

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